GET SMART ABOUT LIFE: Let there be no misunderstanding about this - putting your interests first to a sensible degree is the most important thing you can do if you care about your happiness and the happiness of those around you! THINK FOR YOURSELF: You have to be able to think for yourself to make the decision which is best for you. No matter how sacred the idea, dare to choose whether to accept it or not. Put yourself first. If you must be afraid of something, ...